Tuesday, March 12, 2013

Hello Friends..Welcome Back to my world!!!!!


Hello friends. 

Hope all of you are doing great in your respective lives. It has been approximately 15 months since I communicated with you through my blog.

This was like an exile period for me as 2012 was one of the most forgettable year of my life and I am bit relieved that finally its over but not sure how much time it will take for its traces to disappear from my life. I am really thankful to all of you who stood by my side in this period and kept on listening to my rubbish talks with all the patience in the world and kept reminding me that I am not bad to that extent which I was made to feel. Many Thanks to all of you again.

With your efforts and best wishes I have gathered enough courage to start interacting with all of you again. First of all belated happy new year and happy holi to all of you in advance.
Last year was said to be the year where world will end and I was almost wishing for that but as the director of famous movie '2012' on this disaster was busy in making movie to release in 2013 so there was not even minute chance of becoming it a reality. Many of the english people made fool  of themselves by staying in bunkers or moving to mountains after selling their property but we Indians as usual were happy as even though it was end of world but it was free of cost. 

It was not entirely a rumor, there was end of world for many of my friends in 2012 and in early 2013. Don't take it in negative way. End of world is not always a bad thing if it results in start of new world. Many of my friends got married and thus an altogether new world started for them filled with new responsibilities unknown to them till now. Some of  the married friends became parents which again was like a start of new world in which responsibilites became more than doublefold giving them the taste of what their parents must have said to them many times when my friends were not listening to them  "You will come to know when you will become parents".  Remember this phrase?

Now its upon you to decide whether your old world was better or you are enjoying more in new world :). We as a friend can just say best of luck and keep on reminding you that life is no longer the same for you :).

I would like to use this medium to give my heartily congratulations to my friends who made their parents very happy by getting married in 2012/2013:

(Thought of adding references so that its easy to identify common friends)

Shikha Singh (Satyam), Ritu Ranjan (Birlasoft), Anurag Sharma (NC College, Accenture), Karanbir Ahluwalia (Satyam), Harjot Sidhu (Satyam, Birlasoft), Ayshna Kaushik (Satyam), Ashok Kumar (NC College), Isha Chwala (Birlasoft), Amit Sharma (NC College),Pankaj Sehgal (NC College), Shiv Kumar Sharma (SD School), Ramji Pandey (Satyam, BirlaSoft), Ashish Gupta (NC College), Aman Arora (NC College), Priyanka Salaria (Satyam, HCL), Indranil Biswas (Satyam), Anil Malik (NC College), Rajan Chugh (HCL, Macquarie), Vishnu Singh (Birlasoft), Vikram Chandna (NC College) and Amit Rastogi (BirlaSoft)

I might not able to recall all the names and as I am not on facebook too (which is only medium now a days for being socially active) so I am really sorry if I missed your name. This also signifies that you have not invited me to your marriage :).

Many congratulation to the friends who promoted further by becoming parents and made their parents much happier by giving them their much awaited smaller version of you (Believe me wait starts as soon as you enter the world)   

Sumit Goyal (Satyam, BirlaSoft)  and Shinni (Sumit's wife), Preeti Gupta (Satyam, BirlaSoft) (End of 2011), Pradeep Kumar (Birlasoft) (Twins), Manjeet Singh (NC College), Vikash Kundu (NC College), Divya Puri (Satyam),  Jasleen Sachdeva (Satyam), Sandeep bhardwaj (Satyam), Ashish Rastogi (BirlaSoft, Satyam, HCL), Prateek Suneja(Satyam), HITESH ARORA (NC College) ( Latest entry in the list, blessed with an angel) and Swati Srivastava (Satyam)

Best of luck to my friends who have decided to take the risk and will soon sacrifice their bachelorhood in 2013:

Ankit Goyal (Macquarie), Sumit Narang (NC College), Dixit Pasricha (NC College), Ravneet Singh (Satyam), Ajay Kumar (BirlaSoft), Rashi Goyal (BirlaSoft) and Achin Gupta (BirlaSoft).

Many congratulations to those friends also who I missed in the lists above.

I am not sure whether rest of my friends who have almost finalized their life partners are comfortable in letting the world know or not so I will not disclose their names.

There are some of my friends lined up for becoming parents soon and again this might be confidential thing and I will not let their surprise known to you before them :).

Why to leave those friends who are happily managing their married life. Congratulations to those friends also who have completed their first anniversary or second, third and so on. Wish you make silver, golden or even platinum jubilee. 

My friends who are still bachelors I will just like to say best of luck in both the cases whether you want to get married or want to remain bachelor. Latter is much tougher thing as everyone around you will use every way possible to convince you to lose your bachelorhood but in the end its your decision.

I feel this post has become more of a newsletter and as it was a long time since I wrote so I 
thought of  dedicating this to the my priceless friends (in place of waiting till friendship day) as it is said "Friends are God's way of taking care of us" so friends please take care of yourselves and your friends and be in touch.

Before signing off, one small update from my side also. Please don't think otherwise, its nothing like linked to my marriage. Its for all of you who are not aware that I am back to Noida so whoever planning to come to noida or in noida and wish to meet then just drop an email or give me a call/sms (SMS in case if I don't pick up the phone) on +919717771457 and I would love to meet you.

Bye bye till my next post and thanks for reading it through.

I would love to see comments/updates from all of you.



15 comments:

  1. Oh Chandar, how much time you spent in writing all this stuff for revealing friends life and your heart, emotions. :)

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    1. Bhai it took 3 hours in writing and publishing this post. Hope you liked it :-)

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  2. Thank you so very much.......Chandu.......

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  3. luved it...

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  4. Senthil Kumar ManickamMarch 12, 2013 at 10:31 PM

    Hi chander,

    Though it has been a very looking time, I am very glad and happy for you, for accepting and overcoming whatever difficulties life has thrown on you.. Hope and pray all is well now....

    Thanks for sharing your emotions with us, this is a major stress buster and will also help you to look in a new perspective. It also enables to understand you better...:)

    I am not in touch within any of your batchmates and its really very happy to see them move forward in life.... Convey my best wishes to them.....

    Good luck to you as well .... Feel free to touch base if there's anything I can support you with....

    C ya

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  5. bhai isme to koi shaq nhi hain ki main bahut jyada sochta hoon par tujhse jyada nhi :)..mai bahut darpok insaan hoon isliye horrible part se hamesha bachne ki koshish karta hoon..Thanks bhai for all of your support and you will find standing me besides you too.

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  6. Too Good..

    Superb. I am shortening in words.

    Well, Thanks for such a nice updates of our dear ones. Through this post at least, I am feeling that I am in contact with all the friends without sharing a word actually with them. :)

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  7. Your such a sweet person.
    I’m sorry to hear 2012 was a hard time for you, especially if it is related to Macquarie.

    I will def try to make some time to visit you in India in the nearby future but until then I’ll be keeping in touch.

    All the best Chander. Hopefully 2013 is a good year for you.

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  8. Really glad to see u back

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  9. Please Add my name in 2nd category..blessed with a angel..

    Hitesh Arora

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    1. Many many many congratulations bhai...aapka naam add kar diya hain....ab to tujhse milna hi padega..party jo leni hain :)

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  10. Thanks bhai...wel written..neve knew ur such an emotional person ..i like emotional ppl

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  11. I m extremely Happy that finally u r feeling better. Also really sorry could not support you when you needed a friend. But one is thing very true that " You are not a bad person, instead u r very Nice person".

    All the very Best!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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    1. Thanks friend. No need to be sorry. Sometimes a person is so helpless that he/she is not able to understand what to do and takes decision which changes someone's life forever. Thanks for your best wishes.

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