Portrayal of real love..

Recently I got an SMS from my sister. A boy was sweating heavily. When he tried to wipe his face with his girl friend's dupatta she said, "You are dirty and smelling. Stay away and use your own clothe. When he try to wipe his face with his mother's dupatta, mother said, "Son, this is dirty. Let me give you the clean one."

Both ask him to use some other clothe but there is a huge difference lies in the feelings. We used to strive for real love from outsiders ignoring our own family members. Blame it on cinema or literature (however most of us don't read novels now a days), when ever this four letter word LOVE comes, we think about boy-girl love only. This is the highest selling brand for the market whether it is Valentine's day or romantic movies or novels, every one cash on this feeling by showing us the dreams where a boy and a girl love each other so passionately that they can do any thing for each other. This sort of love is not seen even in married people in real life.


Most of us especially boys, keep on looking for girls in our circles and most of the girls try to dress up in the way so that boys give attention to them. This is natural attraction which some times give birth to relationships some times not. Some times they results in marriage, some times in break ups. Some times even one sided relation ships keep a person happy in hope of getting the other person. Some times even both sided relationships are not able to keep the happiness around. 


I have been with many friends who have no chance of success in their one sided relationships but still they are happy thinking about the other person or helping her out. These are mostly boys who like some girl and want to get her at any cost (dont know if any girl exists too who can fight for any boy apart from in the movies). Girls used to have different priorities. They want status, family approval, and lots of love from her counterpart always keeping them selves safe.  


But hey where is the love in between. For boys it is more of obsession and for girls it is more of possession. I believe real love must be unconditional irrespective of any situation. I will not say unconditional love is impossible but it is very rare. So if you feel that some one loves you truly then try your best to not to let him/her leave you as it is very rare thing. But don't try too hard to get this love as GOD has already created one person for you. That is our MOTHER.


No one can love us more than our mother. For us our mother is the most beautiful woman and for her we are the most beautiful children regardless of our shape and colour and shortcomings.

There is one short story which I like to share here


A little boy came up to his mother in the kitchen one evening while she was making dinner, and handed her a piece of paper that he had been writing on. After his Mom dried her hands on an apron, she read it, and this is what it said:

For cutting the grass: 50.00 rs.
For cleaning up my room this week: 10.00 rs
For going to the store for you: 5 rs.
Baby-sitting my kid brother while you went shopping: 25 rs.
Taking out the garbage: 10.00 rs.
For getting a good report card: 50.00 rs.
For cleaning up and raking the yard: 20.00 rs.
Total owed: 170 rs.

Well, his mother looked at him standing there, and the boy could see the memories flashing through her mind. She picked up the pen, turned over the paper he'd written on, and this is what she wrote:
For the nine months I carried you while you were growing inside me: 
No Charge 

For all the nights that I've sat up with you, doctored and prayed for you:
No Charge 

For all the trying times, and all the tears that you've caused through the years:
No Charge

For all the nights that were filled with dread, and for the worries I knew were ahead:
No Charge 

For the toys, food, clothes, and even wiping your nose:
No Charge 

Son, when you add it up, the cost of my love is:
No Charge. 

When the boy finished reading what his mother had written, there were big tears in his eyes, and he looked straight at his mother and said, "Mom, I sure do love you." And then he took the pen and in great big letters he wrote: "PAID IN FULL".


I will say keep on looking for your True Love in the life. But if you are not successful then don't be disappointed. It is not like that you are worthless, you are priceless for your mother.  Love your parents and live for them. When they will be happy GOD will be happy HIMSELF.


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